How to Stop Trying to Meet Needs: The Discipline of Joy

Facilitator:

   Mair Alight (CNVC Certified Trainer)

Location: Via Phone, Skype or Webphone

   Via your phone, skype or webphone

Date and Time:

   Sun, Apr 9, 2017

April Sundays 7-8pm PT April 2-9-16-23-30

Details

   These calls offer interactive time, not "lecture". I specialize in empathic phone connection; co-creating ease in how we proceed, facilitating flow and offering support. If you are on the CNVC Certified Trainer path, these call hours can serve as part of your work with certified trainers, as you will be learning and practicing key nonviolent communication skills and empathy for self and others...

My "style" of empathic presence is a 'blend' of all my life experience including many other modalities as well as direct learning and practice (over 500 hours) with Marshal Rosenberg, developer of Nonviolent Communication.

What participants are saying:

"I wanted you to know I just love your groups!.. I find them rich, compassionate, educational, inspiring and heart warming!! smile comes on my face just thinking about them!!"
Warmly, Carol Harrington, M.A., C.M.T.

"During Mair's Mentoring Calls I experienced her creative, NVC exercises as both fun & easy to apply to my life." Kelley Giarmita, Wellness Consultant

" I want to express my appreciation for all you have taught me and I have been vitalized by knowing how much my own curiosity and care determine how much I get out of life!"
Virginia Jardim, MAT, ET/P

"I participated in 6 calls with Mair and a group of NVC enthusiasts through the month of January. I found myself nervous as I was new to the teleconference format and to NVC. However, within a couple of calls I felt at ease. My heart was opened by the honest sharing of participants and the deep listening and curiosity Mair brought to each session and person. Over these several weeks, I have come to feel more alive and celebratory toward myself and others. I've opened to new truths and wisdom within myself. The support of others also sharing their truth and honoring my own, has left me feeling inspired, enlivened and hopeful!
Thank-you Mair for guiding this process with such ease and integrity. And thank-you to all the participants who offered their companionship and acceptance!" with warmth, Gwen

"Mair's warmth and expertise supported so much growth for me and the other participants on the phone empathy calls. I particulary enjoyed listening to Mair provide empathy for others - I learned a lot just taking in her mastery and noting the way she engaged with people. I highly recommend this resource! - Mary Goyer, Holistic Fertility Specialist, www.aufertility.com
"As a newbie to NVC, I was dazzled by the role-play Mair did with another person on my first call. I felt the tension as Mair's partner played the role of the partner's teenage son, asking Mair pointed and hostile questions.  And then I felt the relief as Mair gently used NVC to transform a potential confrontation into an opportunity for understanding.  I feel like learning this will help me go deeper and have more fun in my relationships."  - Kevin Bennett

"I love Mair's model of making it easy and low cost and low risk to participate in learning via MaestroConference. I was on the January calls for "practicing empathic presence with the Three Modes of NVC," and I learned  and experimented and made a few nice changes in my world. "- Helen Jones, February 2015"

"I participated in the NeedsBE 8 week teleseries and am celebrating the practice, the learning and personal growth that I received. Our group became a community quickly and there was an universal sharing of trust and support. We supported each other while giving and receiving empathy. The level of experience from our community varied from beginner to advanced. We had opportunity to receive constructive feedback, which was invaluable. On-the-spot coaching was led by Mair and members of the community. The Facebook page allowed for continual sharing and learning; it also was the go-to place for recordings - all calls were recorded which allowed us the chance for study through playback and the opportunity to catch-up on any calls missed. I look forward to joining this community again!" -Donna G.

To my surprise my need for a big leap was met. There wasn’t a class where I didn’t takeaway something golden. At the end of the last of the eight classes, I had a powerful awareness: That my consciousness changed. I was different. A good different. A kinder person. A way better listener (I'm still smiling from this. THIS is what I so wanted and got).
Mair role-modeled and facilitated in a way that met my needs for: Learning, Connection, Love, Inclusiveness, Integrity, Creativity, Authenticity, Ease, Simplicity (and there are more).
I feel touched that Mair always treated everyone (both first time NVC'ers and old students alike) as equals. This met my need for Love. And for Inclusiveness. I love seeing living examples of "everyone matters".
Also, I love that Mair was always (well, nothing is 100% but she was darn close) 'available' to go with the flow (and she did). Even though there was a useful plan, when something more alive showed up, she was on it. She spotted it. She was right now and went with it. I love this because it kept the class up and dynamic; it met my need for LIFE itself.
- Paul Michael (participant in First NeedsBEmpathy Teleseries)

"My experience on these calls is to expect the unexpected - it happens and I'm enlivened and enriched. What an empathy bargain!" - Lanna Seuret

Points

  
  • We'll experience empathic presence as we practice key empathy skills together
  • These calls are scheduled for one hour, however the line will be open after the scheduled hour for the "after-call party", where participants can engage with each other for up to 2 hours additional time! I will stay on when I am not otherwise scheduled.
  • I have been facilitating calls for over a decade and navigates the needs and strategies to meet them with care and efficiency, as our emergent wisdom creates our container with my leadership.

Who is it for?

  This series is for you if you have some experience in Nonviolent Communication and you are eager, enthusiastic, passionate, and/or determined to live and teach Nonviolent Communication. You want to experience mentored empathy with someone who specializes in empathic presence and guidance in practicing key skills in the art of empathy...with nurturing care and the level of challenge you choose. You are so hungry to contribute, and to receive the supportive feedback that invites you to learn and grow, and to offer that supportive feedback to others (when they so request.)

If you are on the path of certification, or plan to be, these  calls with Mair could count towards your training hours.

What to bring:

  Your curiosity and eagerness to learn and grow personally and to support others with their learning and growing.

Tuition Details:

  

The tuition is between $97.00 and $197.00.

If you would like to pay more or less, contact M a i r AT DOMAIN mairalight~com